Malachi 3:10
Prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.
Standing in my sister's kitchen, holding a pot of soup. There is not a place to put the soup. Every inch of the counter (and table and stove) is covered in love.
The same love we feel from an extended family who have cried with us and offered support. Love from our neighbors who show up with flowers (and much needed black eyeliner for the school Halloween parade).
Love and prayers that balance out the pain of loss. The pain we feel for the loss of a child that we wanted to see grow old. The pain we feel for a 16 year old boy whose life was also changed in an instant.
We have been doing hard things here. Things that I wish no parent (or aunt or grandparent) should do. And even though it does not help much with today (or the nights- those are bad), we do know where Allison is and we know we will be reunited.
"For the love of the Son of God pierces all darkness, softens all sorrow and gladdens every heart." -Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf
PS My brother Jared put words to all of our feelings:
Mourning a Loss
I am glad you are there to be with your sister at nights. I think my mom and sisters are the people I would want to be with. I hope you and your family but esp Mindy and hers find some peace in the grief. I am sorry that life can be so hard and cruel. I am glad you have testimony to hold to. Love you and your family.
ReplyDeletethese are heavy things. praying for you, your parents, mindy and rob, the kids, all the cousins... we love you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I hope your family finds comfort and peace during this difficult time. Let me know if I can help you or your family!
ReplyDeleteOh, Becky. I am mindful and prayerful for you and your family. May you find peace, hope, and comfort during this difficult time, and especially may you feel the love of our Savior poured out upon you and your family. Please call me for dinners, a shoulder to cry on, babysitting, or whatever you might need.
ReplyDeleteIt is such a tragic thing, but your family's testimony and strength will bless the lives of everyone you know. I am praying for you, loving my kids a little more, and driving a little more cautiously. Please know that I love you, and am grateful for your example.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I had heard of the accident but didn't know that she was your niece. The loss of a child is especially tender. My thoughts are with you and your family. What a blessing to have eternal families!
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